Good Sex for Every Body

It's heartbreaking to think that so many people in this world feel inhibited about making love with their partner simply because they do not feel sexy in their own skin.  When did this happen?  Who decided that sex was only meant for the attractive and size 00?  Don't buy into it,because it is simply not true!

woman covering half her face Most of us have had times in our lives when we weren't feeling particularly attractive.  Maybe it was a few pounds extra, a bad hair-cut or a cosmically-sized pimple that had us feeling a little down in the sexual dumps.  We may not have been feeling our normal selves and so evaded the act of sex with our partner in the hopes of regaining intimacy at a time when we felt more attractive and alluring.  Sex is not and should not be about image.  Yes, we are drawn to one another's bodies and appreciate the way our partner looks.  Following the initial attraction which brings us together, love, respect and admiration should be in place to cement a couple's loyalty to one another.

It should not matter to your partner that you have gained 15 pounds or that you have experienced an acne flare-up.  Beyond concern for your health, your partner should love you and want to be with you despite any physical changes in your appearance.  If your partner does happen to focus on physical changes and plies you with negative attention or makes you feel badly because of an imperfection, then it may be time to either consider a different partner or to work with your partner and let him or her know how you feel.

No matter what you look like and no matter how you feel, know that you are entitled to beautiful sex with your partner.  People of all shapes, sizes and colors have been happily engaging in sex for millenea.  It's our human right to enjoy.






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